tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21493977.post4971465064884721074..comments2023-10-30T09:31:56.402-05:00Comments on we are everywhere: Birthdaysdbanniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11841887598915555005noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21493977.post-422297523165291042010-09-13T09:54:00.928-05:002010-09-13T09:54:00.928-05:00acckk..6 months later and I am writing back. Tomo...acckk..6 months later and I am writing back. Tomorrow is my son's 1/2 birthday, KimKim. I will buy flowers tomorrow for myself. I think he is in a pull back mode, so flowers which I believe are a necessity of life will be extra nice, tomorrow. <br /><br />How are you? Miss ya, KimKim.<br /><br />Awareness,I feel such a strong drive to mentor mothers in need and help them keeep and be the best mothers they can be to their children.<br /><br />dbannieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21493977.post-2110398284109551262010-03-24T20:13:43.562-05:002010-03-24T20:13:43.562-05:00it is the sad truth how influential our mothers ar...it is the sad truth how influential our mothers are to us when we find ourselves pregnant at an early age. if it werent for my mother, i would have kept my baby. the mentality of adoption being the best thing... "win win for everyone", couldnt be further from the truth. in all reality it is a huge loss for everyone involoved. the adoptive parents lost their biological child that they could not have, the birth mother lost her child that her and her parents were programmed that they could not give the love he/she needed, and the adoptee has lost his most favorite person in the whole world... his mommy. My mother has finally come to grips with the influence she had in the placement of my child. at first she was very defensive stating that it was for the best... finally she has been able to forgive herself for not knowing better and accept that adoption was not the best. if at all possible, we need to mentor with mothers in need and keep babies with their mothers.Keri Stonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08787863637176267645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21493977.post-47320375754008506362010-03-07T17:06:26.484-06:002010-03-07T17:06:26.484-06:00Someone said to me "life has a way of working...Someone said to me "life has a way of working itself out in the end" to me in reference to me being in reunion. I dont consider this to mean it has worked itself out at all. She meant it kindly.<br /><br />My mother tried to make it be ok that my daughter was adopted when I said that she was at university. I just stayed silent when she said that. I had phoned her because my grandfather had died (her father)<br /><br />They want it to be allright or want us to say it's ok because they were very influentual over the situation. At least my mother was I imagine yours was too.<br /><br />You are a good and kind person to still allow her to be in your life, she is very lucky to have you as a daughter. I wonder if she realizes just how lucky she is.<br /><br />Please do something nice for yourself on the birthday. Buy yourself a huge bunch of flowers, you deserve them.KimKimnoreply@blogger.com